When U.S. Vice President Mike Pence said that he would never have a meal alone with a woman who was not his wife, he was invoking the well-worn “Billy Graham rule”; the evangelical leader has famously urged male leaders to “avoid any situation that would have even the appearance of compromise or suspicion.” Translation: Men should avoid spending time alone with women to whom they are not married. Graham has been known to avoid not only meals but also car and even elevator rides alone with a woman. The reason? To avoid tarnishing his reputation by either falling prey to sexual temptation or inviting gossip about impropriety.
Men Shouldn’t Refuse to Be Alone with Female Colleagues
Why no one needs to follow the “Billy Graham rule.”
May 05, 2017
Summary.
When U.S. Vice President Mike Pence recently confessed that he would never have a meal alone with a woman who was not his wife, he was invoking the well-worn Billy Graham Rule, named after the protestant evangelical leader who famously avoided not only meals, but also car and even elevator rides alone with a woman. The reason? To avoid tarnishing his reputation by either falling prey to sexual temptation or inviting gossip about impropriety. But at the heart of it, such “quarantines” serve to perpetuate the notions that women are toxic temptresses and are a form of benevolent sexism. As a result, women don’t get the mentoring and opportunities they need to thrive, and organizations miss out on their talent.
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